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Happy St. Patrick’s Day!

As an Irish descendant, I love celebrating my heritage every March 17th by wearing green, eating corned beef and cabbage, and enjoying Celtic music—minus the pinching! That was my childhood favorite. With six siblings, if you forgot to wear green—even in your pajamas—you were fair game before breakfast!

The definition of luck is success or failure apparently brought by chance rather than through one’s own actions.

While I’m part Irish, I don’t believe in luck. As a woman of faith, I believe in the sovereignty, mercy, and forgiveness of the Almighty God. The past few months have deepened that belief, teaching me invaluable lessons about moving forward.

It hasn’t been easy. There were dark days and long nights that made me question my worth, my value as a leader, and my future. Some people stood by me—encouraging me through texts, emails, job opportunities, or face-to-face meetings—while others drifted away. I often wondered: Was it me or them?

I once posted about losing my identity (professionally), and someone gently reminded me that my true identity is in Jesus Christ. I wholeheartedly agree, but when you lose the place where your passion and purpose align, it shakes you.

That change transformed me—not just professionally, but personally. It marked the end of a 60+ year era, and I’m at peace with that. I’ve adapted. I’ve embraced the path God has placed before me both professionally and personally.

Why? Because moving forward is what leaders do.

A quote from Clear Picture Leadership© captures it perfectly: "Leaders are—by definition—changemakers. When you are called to lead, you are called to advance, move forward, and improve the situation."

At a recent orientation session, I asked a leadership presenter, “What would you tell your younger self at this stage in your life?” She answered, “Don’t be afraid of change.”

One of the best books I read about change during my doctoral studies was Grit by Angela Duckworth. She proves that talent isn’t the key to success - grit is. It’s that inner fire pushing you to try again and again. If you’ve ever quit something but are determined to finish the next thing, read this book.

You have grit. You just need to discover it.

And now, my future is green again. Not just because of my Irish roots, but because of where I work. USF’s colors are green, and the culture is magical. Very welcoming, supportive, and informative. I feel valued again.

And in that environment, it won’t be luck that sustains me, but faith and grit.

Need change? Don’t be afraid. Grit is what keeps us pushing forward when things feel tough. It’s a testament to personal strength and a beacon of hope for anyone navigating transitions.

If you need moral support, reach out to me at whatshesaid2020@yahoo.com. I’d love to walk alongside you on your journey.

What She Said ~ Beverly

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